14 April 2007

Ghosts in the Graveyard


I am haunted.

By words and images that dance in my head. By remembered ghostly tales told on my grandmother's front porch by moonlight. By the occasional glimpse of a beloved, long-dead pet, still sunning herself in her usual spot by the window. By the voice of a loved one, calling my name on the edge of sleep.

As a native of North Carolina with ancestors stretching back into ancient Scotland, Ireland, Wales and Cornwall, I am haunted by history, by the words of great Southern writers, and by music of times long past. So it seems only fitting that I could sing before I could talk, and have been writing since I was old enough to hold a pencil.

Ghosts and ghost stories are a natural part of growing up Tarheel. From Murphy to Manteo, you can trace your way across the state following the trail of legends. I challenge you to find a North Carolina native-born who doesn’t know at least a dozen stories of haints, boogers, disembodies lights, and unexplained mysteries. Say the word “Croatoan” to a North Carolinian and watch their eyes light up. Before you know it, they’ll be telling you the whole story of the strange disappearance of the Lost Colony.

Even childhood games with my cousins leaned decidedly in a paranormal direction. We played a variation of tag called “Ghosts in the Graveyard.” And we really played it in a graveyard, because my ancestors are buried in unmarked graves along the edge of the tobacco fields beside my grandparents’ house. My sister is still convinced that a ghost from that graveyard slammed her Honda’s hatchback down on her head one dark, moonless night!

I asked my grandfather once if having graves so close to the house bothered him. He leaned back in his porch rocker and said placidly, “Nah. Dey rotten.” Ask him about the Haint Mule, though, and he’d shift uncomfortably and change the subject. My sister finally wormed the story out of him, about how he sold a particularly stubborn mule “down the river”, only to have its ghost come back to haunt him by repeatedly thundering around the house and keeping him awake at night.

My first published book, Beaudry’s Ghost, was born of a vacation trip that included Appomattox Battlefield and the most haunted coastline in America, the Outer Banks. Spirits of both these places began whispering in my ear. On the drive home, my brain began to play the writer’s game of “what if?” By the time I got home, a story was born of the ghost of a wrongly dishonored Union soldier seizing a chance for revenge during a modern-day Civil War re-enactment.

I could hold forth on for hours about the legends and lore that shaped me as a writer. But I will save those for another time. Wait’ll you hear the one about the Devil’s Tramping Ground. Hee!

For now, I’m off to watch another episode of “Supernatural” on DVD with my daughter. Well how about that. The title of this episode is... wait for it...

CROATOAN.

What regional ghost stories and supernatural legends do you remember from your childhood? Let's see who can raise those most hairs on the backs of our necks!
~~~
Carolan Ivey
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12 comments:

sjwilling said...

My late wife had the, well she considered it a curse more than a gift, of being able to see "ghosts" and other things. It was a gift apparently handed down through every second generation in her family and only to girls.

It could often be very scary knowing where and how often in the most ordinary of places that she saw them. Including the old lady and her cat who still hangs around our old apartment.

All I can hope is, now she's gone, that's she's in peace and not one of the frustrated souls forced to remain on the earth.

Jenna Leigh said...

Ooh, I love local legends, and yours sound so cool!

My own area has them too. As a teen we used to go in the graveyards on a lark. Of course, we never saw anything. No self-respecting ghost would appear to us giggling half-drunk twits, right?
But, on dark nights, when we were just hanging out, we'd hear the wind moaning through the cypress on the riverbank, and well, that was some of the scariest crap ever. LOL. Ghosts? Naw, but still, it sobered us up enough to get us home safely, so maybe it was our riverguardian or something, who knows? I've got just enough Native American blood to believe that there's more spirits in nature than the dead.

sjwilling said...

We had a haunted house near to where we lived as kids and as teenagers some friends of mine were foolish enough to swear that ghosts didn't exist and decided to spend the night there to prove it.

I gather from what little they said, they went in and taunted the ghosts to prove themselves.

They only managed to stay in there for an hour and when they did come out they were all pale and obviously terrified. None of them, ever, spoke about what happened in there even thirty years later, and none of them ever challenged belief in ghosts again.

S.J.

Carolan Ivey said...

I'm so sorry to hear about your wife, SJ.

Carolan Ivey said...

Jenna, the county I was born in is the center of the Lumbee tribe of Native Americans, who claim to be descendents of the Lost Colony and the Algonquins that allegedly adopted them into the tribe. :) They are an unique people, appearing Native American but with curly hair and blue eyes. Their language incorporates a lot of Old English words.

SJ, thanks for sharing that awesome ghost story! A couple years ago we visited a legendary graveyard on Edisto Island, SC, where there's an open mausoleum - open because "something" kept smashing the door down. Later they opened a grave within the crypt and found a skeleton lying by the opening; the woman apparently was "not quite dead." The crypt is still there, still open. We took turns standing inside it, goofing around and snapping pictures. You should see some of those pics - my Mom, in particular, has a large number of orbs swarming around her! It makes sense - she always was the more psychic one.

Jean Marie Ward said...

After that lead in, if you hadn't mentioned that Supernatural episode, I would've. ;-)
Great ghost stories, Carolan. Can't wait to read more. Hope you'll share excerpts of Beaudry's Ghost. Sounds fascinating.

Carolan Ivey said...

I may just do that, Jean Marie. The book is out of print since LTD went belly up, but I'm hoping Samhain will pick it up. I have a sequel in the wings!

Jody W. and Meankitty said...

The only one I know from growing up in TN a skeptic of almost everything is the Bell Witch (Bloody Mary on Supernatural, I believe!)

Bronwyn Green said...

Oh Carolan, you may be sorry you asked... :)

My baby sister Cait sees auras and spirits. She and I sang at my Grandpa's funeral a couple of years ago. While we we're singing, she got this very odd expression on her face. When we went back to our pew, I asked her about it. She told me that she saw both of our Grandparents (Gram had been dead for 12 years at this point) sitting in a pew by our cousin, Sarah. Cait also said that Gram was holding a baby boy, but she didn't recognize him - she said it felt like a baby that hadn't been born yet. Shortly after my Grandpa's funeral, Sarah discovered she was pregnant. When Cait saw the baby after his birth, she turned white - it was she same baby she'd seen our Gram holding.

A friend and I were walking through the graveyard where my Grandparents are buried and my friend had her two year old son. We were walking through the oldest part of the cemetary and we found about 20 headstones with dates that were all relatively close together and the majority of them were children. Now, neither one of us commented aloud on this, but her little boy would stop by each stone and say "I see baby...I see girl...I see baby...I see silly boy...I see man...I see more baby." It was pretty chilling...and yet pretty cool.

Most recently, in the weird file, a friend was giving me a tarot reading this past summer. She also sees spirits from time to time, but she hates it - it totally freaks her out. During the reading, she kept looking over my shoulder and finally she stopped what she was doing and said, "There's a heavy-set guy standing behind you and he keeps saying that you need to go to K's (one of the women I do daycare for) because she's in danger and you have to hurry." From the additional description my friend gave me, I knew she had to be seeing K's late husband.

So I packed up my stuff and started calling K from my cell phone and got no answer. I was pretty panicked because I knew K was having a rough time of it and was a recovering addict which is never a good combo. I pounded on her doors and when I got no answer I used the key she gave me for emergencies and found her unresponsive and called for help. It turns out that she'd taken a dangerous combination of things. I'm happy to say that she's back on program today. I'm so grateful I was with my friend, because if her husband had been relying on me to see him, I'm not sure what would have happened - I'm just not gifted like that.

Sheesh...sorry this is such a long entry!

Bronwyn Green said...

Duh! So sorry...I just realized you'd asked about legends. Oops! Sorry about that Carolan!

Carolan Ivey said...

Oh, no, Bronwyn, your stories are perfect!

Somtimes I'm glad I don't have strong psychic abilities like that. I see the occasional aura or flicker of something out of the corner of my eye, but nothing like your sister's experience. :)

synndillwow1 said...

I know its been awhile since you posted this particular blog but I have a legand for you that most from the North East (particulary the PA, NJ area) know very well Know as the Jersey Devil. I grew up on these stories heard over and over and sightings still continue to this day although most who see or think they see the Jersye Devil don't admit it.
At night you hear strange sounds making your skin crawl, strange shadows creep across the gorund of something large with wings flying over head, when you look up to see what it could possiably be... Its gone.
There are many variations of the story so its impossiable to tell them all in a little comment but there is a website called The Devil Hunters who are out of NJ and have the variations posted under the legand of the Jersey Devil. He walks on two legs with hooves for feet, the head of a horse, large bat like wings, and red eyes. He has been terroizing the New Jersey and Pennsylvania area since before the Revolutionary, War continuing to present day. I myself have never encounted the Jersey Devil but I have heard the strange sounds comming from the woods as well as the errie feeling that something unnatural is watching you. I consider myself one of the lucky ones who has never had to experience the actual sighting of him.
As far as seeign strange things goes though I have had my share there. When I was about 8 and living with my moms parents, I woke up in the middle of the night to someone calling my name. When I opened my eyes and looked at the doorway there was a woman I didn't recognize standing in my doorway watching me. I screamed for my Mom who came running into my room from down the hall, passing right through the woman who was watching me. My Mom naturally thought it was just a bad dream but had me descibe the woman I saw. As I was describing the woman to my Mom her face paled and she left the room for a few miniutes to get a picture from her room. The picture she brought back was of the same woman I saw in my doorway, My Aunt Dot who had passed away when I was about 2 or 3 years old. I don't remember having known her when she was alive even to this day btu she was deffinately there that night in my bedroom doorway watching me sleep.
At the age of 14 (6 years after My Aunt Dot came to see me), I had another experience with a ghost. This time it wasn't anyone I knew so I'm assuming the person had lived in our house before us at some time. It was a woman around the age of 25 or 30, she had pitch black hair that was down to her waist, adn beautiful green eyes. She stood in the hallway of the old victorian house we lived in at the time with her arms at her sides and her head was down at first. She must have known somehow that I saw her because she looked up at me and smiled. Trying to be brave because I could see through her, I stood my ground. She then spoke to me saying " Don't worry so much sweetheart, everything will turn out for the best, just give things some time" and she was gone. I still to this day am unsure what she was trying to convey to me but the message and the memory are still there and very vivid. Since then I haven't had any more spirits show themselves to me but I can feel them when they're close. Sometimes its a creepy feeling and sometimes its comforting.
Well thats all I have to share at the moment btu if I think of any moe I will deffinately write to you again. Thank you for the Blog it was great. The Childhood game is one I have passed onto my children as I felt it needed to be shared and continued, a pastime that is quickly dying in today's society unfortunately.
Blessed Be,
Amanda